i feel odd telling a 3rd 'party'they cant come.. HELP

FH best friend his Brother is engaged AND has a girlfriend

we sent the announcement to the brother and his FIANCE only...

She JUST im'ed me
"now my question is the announcement was for Scott and kat am I able to attend the wedding also just wondering"

I responded in SHOCK
"the wedding is more then a year and a half away I haven't even planned who inviting let alone the details"

w t f do i say?! bc she is NOT invited.. but i feel REAL weird telling her.. HELP!!!!!!

ps : she is ALSO not invited to FH best friends wedding....

i hope i didnt confuse anyone.

HELP

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confused.... wait he is engaged AND has a girlfriend or are we talking about 2 different guys lol

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wait. everyone knows about each other?

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uh what? a girlfriend? and getting married? what? lol

Message edited 3/23/2007 2:34:37 PM.

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something similar happened to me i was out and a acquaintance asked me the same thing ..."will i get a invite ?" and i just told her listen i will try to do my best but we have alot of family and friends and we have a max ..she understood i would just be honest

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so wait he has a fiance and giirlfriend???

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engaged and a girlfriend makes me go

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LoL i'm a little confused too!! I think I need that info again!!

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wow i hope FH doesnt find out about THAT arrangement he may want to give it a shot!!

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Posted by ant n tilde

wow i hope FH doesnt find out about THAT arrangement he may want to give it a shot!!

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okay, let me know if I have this straight: your FH's brother has a fiancee AND a girlfriend? so you only invited him and his fiancee and then his girlfriend im's you saying she wants to come too? and she's not even invited to her boyfriends wedding?? Did I get this right?

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YES it is ALLL Confusing as you all are....

his name lets call him S
S has been engaged to K for 4 years now
S and K went on to a dating website met E, and E moved into THEIR HOUSE

S K AND E have been LIVING together for 2/ 2.5 years now

S brother is M
M is FH best friend.
M is not having E at his wedding
I am NOT having E at mine..

we sent out announcements to S and K ONLY

im so confused... what is wrong with ppl... and why are they making me stressed with their confusing relationships...

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Posted by GinaBambina88

okay, let me know if I have this straight: your FH's brother has a fiancee AND a girlfriend? so you only invited him and his fiancee and then his girlfriend im's you saying she wants to come too? and she's not even invited to her boyfriends wedding?? Did I get this right?

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Interesting situtation

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yea real interesting. lol

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So they are a swinging couple with a live in girlfriend??

am i getting this right?

and if i am, i don't have any idea as to what's appropriate in terms of invites

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Posted by debbieh

YES it is ALLL Confusing as you all are....

his name lets call him S
S has been engaged to K for 4 years now
S and K went on to a dating website met E, and E moved into THEIR HOUSE

S K AND E have been LIVING together for 2/ 2.5 years now

S brother is M
M is FH best friend.
M is not having E at his wedding
I am NOT having E at mine..

we sent out announcements to S and K ONLY

im so confused... what is wrong with ppl... and why are they making me stressed with their confusing relationships...

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whoa....I don't know how women are able to share their men like that... I DEFINITELY wouldn't be able to do that..

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and its like we cant just totally advoid the ENTIRE family bc FH he is inviting his best friend(hes in the bridal party), the parents and the engaged brother who has the girlfriend...



i jsut signed off line.. she is still like hello hello hello???

mind you she JUST turned 21 and they are almsot 30

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How SCANDALOUS!!! They're swingers?!!?!?

OK, this is what I would tell her, you haven't planned the guest list yet, but you're trying to keep it very small, family only.. that's all.

Message edited 3/23/2007 2:43:28 PM.

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I wouldn't invite her either! She is a Girlfriend of a engaged couple. or like a roomate. Why would you invite her? She has no relationship with you. I would say no.

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sooooo, they're a lil' "freaky"as in "giggidy" freaky?.....



hmmmm

to each their own I say...lol

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Posted by BubbasBride

So they are a swinging couple with a live in girlfriend??

am i getting this right?

and if i am, i don't have any idea as to what's appropriate in terms of invites

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Posted by AMGBride2008

How SCANDALOUS!!! They're swingers?!!?!?

OK, this is what I would tell her, you haven't planned the guest list yet, but you're trying to keep it very small, family only.. that's all.

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i'm not one to judge....so party on to them!

but for you, i would view her like their roommate, and probably wouldn't invite. It's rude of her to ask you anyway. I agree with others, tell her you need to keep the numbers down.

By now she must be used to being shunned, no?